Ten Rules For Fat Girls
This article makes my heart sing with happiness!
Here are the rules and some of my favorite bits.
1. You are not obligated to be thin, healthy, or pretty.
We also have this idea that our bodies are only worth their value to other people. Guess what? MY VALUE AS WOMAN IS NOT DEPENDENT ON WHETHER OR NOT MEN WANT TO FUCK ME.
2. Don’t talk shit about your body.
A. Change the subject
B. Try to change people’s minds by making body positive statements (only do this if you like to argue)
C. If you’re totally stuck, entertain yourself: mentally replace words like “carbs” with “balls.” It’s way more fun to listen to people discuss good balls versus bad balls and whether or not they’re getting enough balls.
3. Don’t talk shit about other people’s bodies.
Just like people don’t know anything about your health or history by the size of your body, you don’t know what a thin person has dealt with in her life either.
4. Wear clothes that fit.
It’s hard to be confident when you’re constantly yanking a wedgie.
5. Demand better treatment from healthcare professionals.
You deserve respect and attention from your healthcare professionals regardless of your size. Don’t accept abuse and condescension. And certainly don’t pay for it.
6. Find a way to move.
Just don’t go into it expecting to lose weight. Move to enjoy life more.
7. Stand up for yourself.
Powerful women scare the hell out of weak-minded dickweasels.
8. Deal with your fat.
Often because we are heirs to such body shame, we avoid getting to know our flesh, so when something does go wrong we don’t realize it until it’s really serious.
9. There are worse things in the world than being fat.
Hating yourself is pretty damn awful too. Trust me, it’s way worse than being fat.
10. Don’t expect to feel awesome about yourself every single day forever.
Tell yourself you are loved – because you are, I promise – and accepted exactly as you are no matter what, and that even if you’re not strong enough to believe it every day, it’s still true, and that truth will be there when you can reach out and grasp it.
I sincerely suggest a full read of the article. It’s AWESOME!
Time for something good on my blog :3They all weigh 150lbs.
There is no ‘right’ body type. Weight looks different on different people, and it is ALL OKAY. Don’t compare yourself to other people’s bodies, learn to love the body you’re in NOW and what it can do NOW.
I NEED THIS ON MY BLOG
this is perfection
10:15 PM
Those days when you can look in the mirror and say, “damn, I look good.” :D
I got my formal dress in the mail today(yes Alecia, I know, spoiling the surprise). I love it. I love the way it hugs my body. It’s a little short in the back but cute none the less. I got a package of clothes from Forever 21 today as well. I tried it all on and in the process of taking a couple pictures of my new stuff I kept saying, “damn my ass looks good” and other compliments to myself. Sometimes I look at these smaller girls in their cute dresses and tights that don’t come in my size and I think “ugh I wish I could just lose like 40 pounds, maybe then I’d look better” and I’m sure if I lost a little weight I’d be slimmer in those trouble spots and I’d fit into clothes better. But the thing is, I’m happy as I am. I know a large group of people who LOVE my body just as it is as well. I’ve always been chubby and I’ve always had loads of friends and boyfriends and sex and always been really happy. So I realize that I don’t need to lose weight to be happy. Cause I can look at these pictures of myself and think, DAMN. I LOOK FIIINE. I love my body. I love my curves, and fluff, and rolls, and my round ass, and big tits. And if you don’t. STEP OFF.
Age:19
Weight:220lbs
Height:5’6
Size: 18 jeans
